WHY???

How come everyone else I know can see my posts almost immediately and I have to wait for weeks. I get comments sent to my email before the post even shows up on the page. Is it my crappy 56k (actually 28.8k) modem?

Just a quick update, I hope I didn't offend anyone by my previous post, that was not my intention. So I'm sorry if any offence was taken. Then again, I don't think there are any readers that have reason to take offence. I don't know. Have a great week everyone.